The Narcissist’s Family System: The Scapegoat
A deeper look into why the narcissist needs a scapegoat
Have you ever wondered why the narcissist assigns one of his children to be a scapegoat? Recently, I came to a new awareness of what this child’s role is for the narcissist.
What is a scapegoat?
In the days that Isreal was traveling to the promised land, they would use a goat to take on the sins of the people which would then be set free outside of the camp.
What does this have to do with the narcissist? He uses one of his children to take on the sins of his childhood in an attempt to be set free from his past.
The Role of the Scapegoat
The scapegoat is the child that takes the blame when something goes wrong, is bullied the most by the narcissist, and is treated as the least important family member.
The other children play into this drama, knowing that if the scapegoat continues to take on the disdain of the narcissist they will be spared the worst of it. Don’t blame…
