Take a self-defense class.

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I recently took a free self-defense class to learn some skills. In my abusive relationship, I never fought back. I was used to shrinking down and going into a non-threatening posture when he was yelling at me or acting physically aggressive.

I knew it would be difficult to go through the training and to imagine fighting back instead of taking the abuse.

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