You are just another source of supply — I recently followed Patrick Weaver Ministries on Facebook. He shares about abusive relationships with narcissists and growing up with an alcoholic narcissist for a father. In a recent post, he shared that we struggle in relationships with narcissists because we don’t realize that they don’t have relationships. They have arrangements…

Protect yourself physically and emotionally — A Caution The first rule for meeting with a narcissist or someone who has been abusive to you in the past is, “Safety First”. Don’t put yourself or your children at risk of violence. If you have any doubt about your safety do not meet with a dangerous person. Boundaries Now that we…

I’m here to serve you — Hi! I’m Julia Freeman and I’m a Domestic Violence and Narcissistic Abuse survivor. I write under an alias I chose while living in a domestic violence shelter. I have a bunch of children, love to read, write, watch movies, and help others. I have been a writer since before I could…

Part I: Examples from my former husband — Abuse is abuse even when we excuse it with a chuckle, while the abuser attempts to win our favor by acting like a loveable, but unruly child. Things he said “I’m sorry for yelling with you.” My former husband made this faux apology after we had a blowout because of some abusive thing…

As a survivor of narcissistic abuse, I am struggling with standing up for myself and my children. I have to advocate for one of my children and every time I do I feel like the situation will turn into a dramatic fight. I think this is because the narcs have…

As a woman, I feel it’s important to bring awareness to other women fighting for their freedom. I have been unplugged from media and did not hear this story until today. I share this link which I received through an email newsletter this morning. This is a quick read to…

Hi everyone, Have you ever wondered why it’s so hard for people to leave an abusive relationship? In this episode, I explore the reasons why. Any person who has made it out should be commended. Topics: Why women don’t leave, it’s more complicated than people think. Denial keeps victims…

In this episode, I share how I am trying to turn around the guilt and stress about not making enough money as a single mom. Being a single parent is difficult enough without carrying around guilt about not making enough money, having a better home, giving the children the…