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Julia Freeman, an anonymous survivor
Julia Freeman, an anonymous survivor

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Single Parents Protect Yourself From Economic Disaster

Build your buffer zone and backup plan so you don’t have to worry about the future — Oh No! You receive the dreaded call from your child’s school. Illness has hit your house and now you will have to leave work early and miss a few days of work. You begin to worry about the financial implications of a smaller paycheck. Or how about this one? You hurt yourself…

Single Moms

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Single Parents Protect Yourself From Economic Disaster
Single Parents Protect Yourself From Economic Disaster
Single Moms

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The Narcissist Is in an Arrangement Not a Relationship With You

You are just another source of supply — I recently followed Patrick Weaver Ministries on Facebook. He shares about abusive relationships with narcissists and growing up with an alcoholic narcissist for a father. In a recent post, he shared that we struggle in relationships with narcissists because we don’t realize that they don’t have relationships. They have arrangements…

Narcissistic Abuse

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The Narcissist Is in an Arrangement Not a Relationship With You
The Narcissist Is in an Arrangement Not a Relationship With You
Narcissistic Abuse

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How To Meet Safely With a Narcissist If You Must

Protect yourself physically and emotionally — A Caution The first rule for meeting with a narcissist or someone who has been abusive to you in the past is, “Safety First”. Don’t put yourself or your children at risk of violence. If you have any doubt about your safety do not meet with a dangerous person. Boundaries Now that we…

Narcissism

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How To Meet Safely With a Narcissist If You Must
How To Meet Safely With a Narcissist If You Must
Narcissism

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Welcome to My Profile

I’m here to serve you — Hi! I’m Julia Freeman and I’m a Domestic Violence and Narcissistic Abuse survivor. I write under an alias I chose while living in a domestic violence shelter. I have a bunch of children, love to read, write, watch movies, and help others. I have been a writer since before I could…

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Welcome to My Profile
Welcome to My Profile
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Narcissists use Subtle Verbal Abuse to Control You

Part I: Examples from my former husband — Abuse is abuse even when we excuse it with a chuckle, while the abuser attempts to win our favor by acting like a loveable, but unruly child. Things he said “I’m sorry for yelling with you.” My former husband made this faux apology after we had a blowout because of some abusive thing…

Narcissistic Abuse

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Narcissists use Subtle Verbal Abuse to Control You
Narcissists use Subtle Verbal Abuse to Control You
Narcissistic Abuse

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2 days ago

Our Collective Experience With Narcissists Who Don’t Care if We Live or Die

Thank you for your vulnerability — Last week I published an article asking if a narcissist would let you die instead of helping you. I wasn’t sure how it would go over. Sometimes I feel like I’m overreacting or overthinking(the abuser accused me of that many times) about what happened to me during my narcissistic relationship. Would a Narcissist Let You Die Instead of Helping You? Healing means facing the truth about everythingjuliafreemanfree.medium.com

Narcissistic Abuse

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Narcissistic Abuse

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4 days ago

Regaining Your Self-Worth After Narcissistic Abuse

We all know that abusive relationships destroy self-worth. This is a fundamental part of how an abuser brings you under control and keeps you prisoner. The Slow Process of Losing Your Self The abuser undermines your self-worth by questioning your decisions so that you don’t trust yourself to think through a problem and come to a true…

Narcissistic Abuse

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Regaining Your Self-Worth After Narcissistic Abuse
Regaining Your Self-Worth After Narcissistic Abuse
Narcissistic Abuse

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Jan 20

Story of the Week: How a Covert Narcissist Ends Things

Cowardly Narcissistic Tactics — From Myla Morningstar comes an insightful story of the end tactics used by a covert narcissist. If you’ve ever been discarded by a narcissist go read this. You will feel so validated. She explains things in ways I’ve never read before. Really makes you think. Countdown to Goodbye: 16 Signs of a Covert Narcissist Ending If I’d known it was the last piece of popcorn, would it have tasted different?medium.com

Narcissistic Abuse

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Narcissistic Abuse

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Story of the Week: How a Covert Narcissist Ends Things

Cowardly Narcissistic Tactics

From Myla Morningstar comes an insightful story of the end tactics used by a covert narcissist. If you’ve ever been discarded by a narcissist go read this. You will feel so validated. She explains things in ways I’ve never read before. Really makes you think.

Countdown to Goodbye: 16 Signs of a Covert Narcissist Ending

If I’d known it was the last piece of popcorn, would it have tasted different?

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I hope you have a wonderful weekend.

Peace,

Julia

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Jan 18

Survivors, Are You Hiding Your Scars?

Should we hide them? — How do you feel about your scars? The scars we carry after an abusive relationship will always be a part of us. Do you embrace them and wear them proudly? Do you hide them and pretend they aren’t there? What does it say about us if we try to hide…

Survivor

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Survivors, Are You Hiding Your Scars?
Survivors, Are You Hiding Your Scars?
Survivor

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Jan 16

Would a Narcissist Let You Die Instead of Helping You?

Healing means facing the truth about everything — Was he too afraid to help or was it something more? I gave birth at home and almost died from a postpartum hemorrhage. I have been thinking about how my ex-husband behaved while I was going through this. I think my experience is an example of how little a narcissist cares for others. The whole thing is a blur. I don’t…

Narcissistic Abuse

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Would a Narcissist Let You Die Instead of Helping You?
Would a Narcissist Let You Die Instead of Helping You?
Narcissistic Abuse

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Julia Freeman, an anonymous survivor

Julia Freeman, an anonymous survivor

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I write from my experience of being raised by a narcissist and being married to an abusive narc for over 20 years. Learningtolivefree.me

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