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I’m Julia Freeman and I’m a Domestic Violence and Narcissistic Abuse survivor. I write under an alias I chose while living in a domestic violence shelter. I have a bunch of children, love to read, write, watch movies, and help others.

I have been a writer since before I could…

My Story: Introduction

And had to live in a domestic violence shelter for almost a year

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Two days after fleeing my angry, alcoholic husband I landed in a Domestic Violence shelter with my children. We hid there for two months until he found us on April Fool’s Day and used the court system to take them from me. The judge didn’t give me anything and…

My sense of smell is still broken

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I walk into the store and smell fresh-baked treats and coffee and then rotten potatoes. I had a tiny whiff of normalcy, just long enough to make me realize how horrible the scent prison I am living in is. Rotten potatoes. That is how my brain chooses to interpret the…

Julia Freeman, an anonymous survivor

I write from my experience of being raised by a narcissist and being married to an abusive narc for over 20 years. I use my experience to help others live free.

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