You are just another source of supply — I recently followed Patrick Weaver Ministries on Facebook. He shares about abusive relationships with narcissists and growing up with an alcoholic narcissist for a father. In a recent post, he shared that we struggle in relationships with narcissists because we don’t realize that they don’t have relationships. They have arrangements…

Protect yourself physically and emotionally — A Caution The first rule for meeting with a narcissist or someone who has been abusive to you in the past is, “Safety First”. Don’t put yourself or your children at risk of violence. If you have any doubt about your safety do not meet with a dangerous person. Boundaries Now that we…

I’m here to serve you — Hi! I’m Julia Freeman and I’m a Domestic Violence and Narcissistic Abuse survivor. I write under an alias I chose while living in a domestic violence shelter. I have a bunch of children, love to read, write, watch movies, and help others. I have been a writer since before I could…

Part I: Examples from my former husband — Abuse is abuse even when we excuse it with a chuckle, while the abuser attempts to win our favor by acting like a loveable, but unruly child. Things he said “I’m sorry for yelling with you.” My former husband made this faux apology after we had a blowout because of some abusive thing…

Your brain can heal — After years of experiencing physical, psychological, or emotional abuse you may be suffering from nightmares about those who abused you even if you are now free. Have you ever wondered if you could be free of horrible dreams? The first step in taking action is questioning whether you have to…

Let's make 2023 work for us this year — Hello!!! I hope you are having an amazing week. I am finally getting back on track with podcasting and writing. I’m so excited to bring you a new season of the Learning to Live Free Podcast. …

We all know that abusive relationships destroy self-worth. This is a fundamental part of how an abuser brings you under control and keeps you prisoner. The Slow Process of Losing Your Self The abuser undermines your self-worth by questioning your decisions so that you don’t trust yourself to think through a problem and come to a true…